Course & Community

Createthe life and love you married for

An guided online learning experience and community to help you transform yourself, your husband, and your marriage!

Would you like to feel...

But instead you feel...

Marriage should be...

…the springboard to a fulfilling life. A loving husband and a wife should feel energized by one another; emotionally supported and confident in pursuing their everyday plans and life dreams.

Too often though…

…spouses don’t have the knowledge and skills needed to develop that kind of partnership, and wives in particular end up worried, frustrated, overwhelmed, or confused.

But add a little…

…wisdom beyond your own, and that can change. That can easily change.

With the right kind of encouragement, guidance, and example, you can learn how to create the life and the love you married for: a relationship that frees, balances, and supports you while it also inspires your husband to mature into his best, most loving, most courageous self.

Here's How

What is the WifeSavers Course & Community?

The WifeSavers Course & Community is an online, transformative learning program to help women naturally, gradually educate themselves in the understanding and skills required to feel successful in their personal development and in their marriage.

The program encompasses the unique, celebrated body of powerful, proven knowledge taught by Ramona Zabriskie: presented in a flexible, manageable style that respects your demanding life and family budget.

What Will You Learn?

Your WifeSavers education will open your heart and mind to the secrets and strategies that thousands of women around the world are using today to lead more fulfilling lives and to literally save, resurrect, or beautify their relationship.

Through beautiful new ideas, insightful analogies, real examples, and practical tactics, you will learn how to:

How does it work?

WifeSavers is a gives you access to video/audio lessons, motivating rewards, and live mentoring opportunities to keep you learning and growing as a women and wife. Key features include:

Perspective-Altering Lessons

Ramona’s engaging mentor-lessons will open your eyes to transformative personal and marital possibilities—one easy-to-digest lesson at a time.

Actionable Affirmations and Practice

Use each lesson’s easy-to-remember affirmation and thought-provoking practice to help you apply new concepts and see real results.

Video & Audio Options

All mentor-lessons come in both video and audio format so you can choose the learning style that fits your lifestyle.

Set Your Schedule

Take your time with the lessons: learning, growing, and practicing at your convenience until each new skill set becomes easy, familiar, and natural to you!

Earn Badges

With the completion of each Module (4-6 lessons), a “Badge” related to the skill set you’ve mastered will help you keep track of (and feel good about!) your accomplishments.

Experience Rewards

Progress from one Level (5 modules) to the next and reap the “Delights” you have planned for and promised yourself: special things or experiences that have deep meaning to you!

Live Help and Support

Take advantage of the regular opportunity to meet virtually with other members and to ask your questions of Ramona live.

Meet Your Mentor

Nearly divorced two years after her own wedding, Ramona Zabriskie knows how it feels to be misunderstood and unappreciated. She also knows what it’s like to be cherished, cared for, and honored.

By the same man.

Over a forty year marriage, Ramona sought out and learned for herself the secrets of truly successful wives and women. In the process, her own relationship was saved, and thousands of other marriages around the world have improved dramatically from her experience, research, and wisdom.

Ramona’s unique and special approach to supporting your marriage has been proven and tested by women worldwide through her multi-award winning book, Wife for Life: The Power to Succeed in Marriage, and her acclaimed Wife for Life University intensive program.

Now, with WifeSavers, you have the opportunity to learn from Ramona in a truly self-directed, self-paced, affordable way.

WifeSavers Works!

Imagine a life where you feel…

WifeSavers will take you there!

Get Started Now!

Join today and enjoy:

Life-changing learning and motivation

WifeSavers Mentor Video or Audio Lessons

Each one of Ramona’s entertaining lessons gradually increases your understanding as a woman and builds your skill-set as a wife.

WifeSavers Affirmations, Reflections, and Exercises

Thought-provoking applications accompanying each Mentor Lesson will bring out your feminine energy, creativity, and joy: the best you!

WifeSavers Badges and Delights

Earn fun awards and rewards delight your heart and keep you motivated throughout your WifeSavers education.

Personal And Community Live Support

Conversations with Ramona

Enjoy the very special opportunity to interact live with Ramona and the members of the WifeSavers community each month in live group Q&A’s.

“Kitchen Table” Conversations

Gather face-to-face with fellow WifeSavers around our virtual “kitchen table” to support and inspire each other.

Live Webinars

Ramona hosts fascinating live webinars with fellow relationship experts each quarter.

Personal Mentoring

Enjoy the option of meeting with Ramona one-on-one on an as-needed basis at an exclusive discount.

Only $34.99/month

If you’re not immediately thrilled with the program, we offer a 14-day money back guarantee.

Frequently Asked Questions

A vast, diverse body of women from every stage of life (young and old); from every marital experience (engaged to newlywed to long-married, divorced, remarried, single, and never married); from various cultural backgrounds (North and South America, Europe, Asia, the Middle East, Africa, Australia, Polynesia, the Caribbean, and Latin America); and from diverse faith heritages (Christians, Muslims, Jews, etc.) are successfully using WifeSavers principles to dramatically affect their lives and marriages.

“Regardless of culture and background, this program is a must for every woman!”

“There isn’t one woman on earth I would not recommend this program to!”

“Any woman who wishes to become stronger, more empowered, and happier in her marriage would benefit from this program!”

If you are a woman who is sincere in her desire to improve her life and her marriage (or future marriage), and if you are ready to patiently work at it, be assured that you will be loved and welcomed into the WifeSavers Course & Community.

*If your marriage is in serious jeopardy, please see the third question below.

Though each student may have applied Ramona’s teachings somewhat differently based on their unique situation and relationship, the results of those that make a real effort are very much the same:

  • Increased love, compassion, and confidence in herself as a an individual and as a woman.
  • Greater calm, resolve, and warmth in her relationships—most particularly her marriage.
  • New excitement for the future.

Using the real-wife tools and perspectives Ramona has given her, student after student reports feeling more in love than ever with their husband. Common disagreements and misunderstandings dispel, long-standing hurts and obstacles resolve, and true friendship and intimacy move the relationship forward in promising, new ways.

“Ramona changed my thinking. She helped me realize that I had never learned real principles pertaining to being a good wife. I am certainly a smart woman who loves her husband, but Ramona gave me the tools to bring my marriage and mine and my husband’s happiness to a whole new level. We really are partners now and are growing into each other’s confidants and soul mates.”

No, it does not. Nothing in our program should be taken in lieu of professional academic, medical, or legal advice.

If you have any of the following issues in your marriage, we strongly recommend seeking out appropriate professional resources:

  • Physical, sexual, or emotional abuse
  • Extramarital affair
  • Mental illness
  • Pornography addiction
  • Gaming addiction
  • Substance abuse

We cannot guarantee any certain outcome for any member of WifeSavers, particularly those with critical issues present.

Ramona Zabriskie’s given name means “wise counselor” in Spanish, “mighty defender” in German, and “dreamer” in Arabic. All three come together in her career as a marriage mentor and educator. Known for her empathy, passion, and humor, Ramona’s motivational speaking has taken her all over the United States for over thirty years. She began focusing her live presentations on understanding men and marriage in 2008 in addition to writing three internationally popular blogs on the subject. Her subsequent personal involvement with readers and audiences from all over the world led to her work as a mentor and to serious research and writing. Her book, Wife for Life: The Power to Succeed in Marriage, is the winner of multiple awards, and her remarkably effective, virtual school for women, Wife for Life University is acclaimed internationally. Determined to reach and help as many women and families as possible, Ramona’s WifeSavers is her most recent project: a membership and education program changing women’s lives around the world.

Prior to her work with marriages, Ramona spent thirty years writing and directing for the performing arts and chaired a number of service organizations and events focused on women, teens, and disability advocacy. She is the mother of four and wife-for-life to Dale Zabriskie, international keynoter and corporate evangelist. Her husband, children, in-law children, and grandchildren are her biggest fans and have all contributed their varied and professional talents to WifeSavers. As 5th, 6th, and 7th generation Washingtonians in Amercia’s Pacific Northwest, the family lives just over the river and through the woods from Portland, Oregon, where the author continues to work on projects to help and inspire women and the men who love them.

Yes, of course you can! (And your first month will be refunded if you’re not immediately thrilled with the program within 14 days.) The beauty of WifeSavers is that the length and depth of your commitment, including the resources required (time, money, heart, and thought) is totally up to you. Please note however, that students who remain engaged for at least a year or more report the most significant results. A long-term commitment will help you get the most out of your WifeSavers experience and education.

When you join WifeSavers you gain immediate access to our exclusive Membership site. In that virtual space, you will find a wealth of resources including your WifeSavers Mentor Lessons, which you may watch or listen to there. You will also find exercises and downloadable worksheets. The site itself is responsive, which means you can view and navigate it as easily from your smartphone or mobile device as you can from your laptop or desktop computer.

“Conversations with Ramona” are live, virtual Q&As where you can submit questions, either beforehand or during the lab, and get direct, customized answers from Ramona. Of course, you’ll also learn lots of new things from the questions others submit!

The next upcoming conversation will be announced through the website and by email well in advance so that you can plan ahead to attend. They are held on different days of the week and at different times of the day so as to accommodate our global membership as much as possible.

Members register for a Conversation and submit their questions at least 24 hours in advance through the website. Participants are then sent a URL or link, as well as a phone number if preferred, that will allow them to login to our virtual classroom from a computer or mobile device. The Conversation itself, which will include Ramona’s live responses and participant discussion, will last 1-2 hours depending on the nature of the discussion. You are welcome to come and go as needed or desired.

Course Table of Contents

Level 1: Foundations

Your Individuality, Your Womanhood, and the “Why”

Module 1: You are a Dream Maker

(6 lessons) Appreciate your individuality and your womanhood.
1. Consider your individuality and your womanhood 2. Today’s choices and your future 3. Balancing self with relationship 4. Exploring your creativity 5. Channeling your passion 6. Accessing your power as a woman

Module 2: Finding the Why

(4 lessons) Comprehend why your approach to marriage and family life differs from his.
1. Your “why” as a woman for marriage 2. Discovering the “theme” of your life as an individual 3. Your husband’s deepest “why” for living 4. How you are integral to his “why”

Module 3: Your Husband Positively

(6 lessons) Understand the biological and cultural tendencies common to men and boys.
1. The gender spectrum: we all have masculine and feminine energy 2. Going inside with science: brain and hormones 3. A “masculine” way of thinking 4. A “masculine” way of expression 5. Harmonizing masculine and feminine energy 6. How he sees his commitment to you

Module 4: What Are We Afraid Of?

(4 lessons) Identify the insecurities and fears that are sabotaging your relationship.
1. The impact of your insecurities on your sense of worth 2. Identifying your insecurities 3. The “male” fears he deals with everyday 4. Recognizing your husband’s fears

Module 5: The Crazy Ladies and The Castle

(4 lessons) Identify the inadvertent behaviors and attitudes that sabotage your relationship.
1. What happens to us when our dreams are frustrated or threatened 2. Identifying the behaviors that undermine your dreams and relationship 3. What your man is supposed to be and wants to be for you 4. The most important element in a successful marriage

Level 2: Transformations

Loving Yourself While Living With Your Man

Module 1: Teaching a Knight to Knit

(5 lessons) Recruit the practical and emotional support you need from him effectively.
1. Recruiting his help and support for your legitimate needs 2. Securing his help with the home and family 3. Partners in problem-solving 4. His involvement in emotional issues 5. How to tell him when he’s hurt your feelings

Module 2: Getting Off Dream Breaker Road

(5 lessons) Identify where your marriage is at, where it’s going, and turn it around.
1. Where getting off track begins for you in the long-term 2. Once you are persistently off-track, how your perception of him devolves to divorce 3. Where getting off track over the long haul starts for him 4. Once he’s off track, how his perception of the relationship devolves 5. What turning around looks like and where it can take you

Module 3: Romancing Your Heart

(5 lessons) Balance care for yourself with care for the many others that you love.
1. The power to be more peaceful and proactive under stress 2. His (and your) responsibility in your mental and emotional stability and stamina 3. Romancing your heart: Drops 4. Romancing your heart: Delights 5. Romancing your heart: Dazzles

Module 4: Preventing Earthquakes and Protecting the Relationship

(6 lessons) Manage the conflict in your relationship proactively.
1. The differences between normal and unhealthy conflict 2. Preventing unnecessary unhealthy conflict 3. When you’re worked up 4. When he’s worked up 6. Non-toxic criticism

Module 5: The Final Frontier: Persevering and Mountaineering

(5 lessons) Deal with recurring issues and move past grief and hurt.
1. Identifying unsolvables: the issues that aren’t going away 2. How to deal with acceptable unsolvables over the long haul 3. What forgiveness is and what it isn’t 4. How to request forgiveness 5. The steps in extending forgiveness

Level 3: Elevations

Growing With Him: Fostering Connection and Influence

Module 1: Becoming His Emotional Intimate

(6 lessons) Build companionship, friendship, and emotional intimacy.
1. Honing your intuition as a wife 2. Refining the qualities of what he sees as a true friend 3/ The power in casual, info-based conversation 4. Opening up more intense, opinion-based conversation 5. Encouraging emotion-revealing conversation 6. Dealing with his reveal: emotion-coaching vs. emotion dismissing

Module 2: The Laws of Attraction (Part A)

(5 lessons) Influence him in a way that draws him to you and inspires his personal growth.
1.The power of perspective: “beholding” 2. Law #1: Acceptance 3. Law #2: Approval 4. Law #3: Appreciation 5.Law #4: Admiration

Module 3: The Laws of Attraction (Part B)

(6 lessons) Influence him in a way that helps him mature into his best self.
1. Law #5 Availability 2. Law #6 Affection 3. Law #7 Arousal 4. Law #8 Accommodating Accomplishment 5. Law #9 Allegiance 6. Law #10 Authenticity

Module 4: Becoming His Physical Intimate: Overcoming Everyday Barriers

(6 lessons) Manage the conflict in your relationship proactively.
1. The purpose of physical intimacy in a lifelong partnership 2. Societal misconceptions, misunderstandings, and lies about sex 3. Common barriers that may be keeping you as a woman from enjoying sex 4. General solutions to those common barriers 5. Family life obstacles and solutions: from trying to get pregnant to having a toddler 6. Family life obstacles and solutions: from elementary-aged kids to empty-nesting

Module 5: Becoming His Physical Intimate: Understanding Needs & Difference

(6 lessons) Understand how you each think about, experience, and need sex differently.
1. His prespective and approach vs. her feelings and perceptions 2. Sex as a physical need 3. Sex as an emotional need 4. Sex as a spiritual need 5. Sex as a relational need 6. Sex as a benefit to you both

Level 4: Culminations

Creating a Powerful Partnership

Module 1: Masculine Zest and Inspiration

Module 1: Masculine Zest and Inspiration (5 lessons) Facilitate his physical health, mental well-being, and emotional energy.
1. How to help him appropriately and optimally balance work and play 2. Recreational companionship and shared hobbies/interests 3. Making room for adventure because of its impact on his potential 4. The male quest as a biological directive and health imperative 5. How you’ve been his inspiration from the start

Module 2: Dream Seeking

(4 lessons) Partner in finding and inspiring a quest.
1. The first two attributes of a quest: sizeable, showable 2. The second two attributes of a quest: stretchable, shareable 3. Working together to refine the dream (part A) 4. Working together to refine the dream (part B)

Module 3: Dream Believing

(4 lessons) Preparing to invest in the quest.
1. What Dream Makers are made of 2. Deciding to believe: questions on patience and persistence 3. Deciding to believe: questions on contributing and sharing 4. Deciding to believe: questions on humility and loyalty

Module 4: Dream Keeping

(6 lessons) Keeping his dreams alive and confidence thriving.
1. The purpose of physical intimacy in a lifelong partnership 2. Societal misconceptions, misunderstandings, and lies about sex 3. Common barriers that may be keeping you as a woman from enjoying sex 4. General solutions to those common barriers 5. Family life obstacles and solutions: from trying to get pregnant to having a toddler 6. Family life obstacles and solutions: from elementary-aged kids to empty-nesting

Module 5: Dream Weaving

(6 lessons) Make him a partner in facilitating your dreams.
1. The two kinds of dream weaving 2. Weaving your dreams with his: shedding 3. Weaving your dreams with his: picking 4. Weaving your dreams with his: battening 5. Examples of successful dream weaving 6. Identifying your dazzles and how to discuss them with him

Think of all you will learn and change for the better!
Can’t wait to start!

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